Are you ready to revise the “script” you have been running in your
mind? The one that has been keeping you bound to a life of
mediocrity?
To edit the “script” running in your mind you need to change the
way you think, the way you act and the way you react to situations.
First you must recognize that most of your thinking is based on
“old programming” that was forced upon you by others while you were
growing up, as well as the negative programming that you encounter
even to this day as an adult.
The time has come for you to rid yourself of this negative programming
that is stopping you from achieving the success you desire. Now, is
the time to write your own script. Stop holding on to old beliefs,
habits and self-defeating behavior. Don’t let your past become
the basis for your future. Stop playing the “I am a victim” game.
Bad things happen to everyone. These experiences makes us who
we are today.
You need to understand and accept that challenging situations
regardless of how bad they were or are, happened for a reason.
Nothing happens in life by accident. There are no such things
as coincidences. I know that you might refuse to acknowledge
the truth of what I am saying, that is your prerogative. You can
choose to remain a victim and continue blaming others and your
“circumstances” for your “miserable” life, or you can accept what
happened as a learning experience instead of seeing it as an obstacle
or roadblock and change your usual response towards it. Choose to
rewrite the script and not react towards the situation as you usually
would. Try being optimistic and positive regardless of the seemingly
“terrible situation” you seem to assume it is.
When one of your “old programming chips” try to dictate the way you
should do things or react to situations, stop and identify where
the programming came from. Take a small cue card and write it down.
Example:
Old Programming:
I was told by my dad that I was a follower.
New Programming:
I am not a follower; I have a mind of my own. I might accept
advice from people I respect but that does not make me
a follower.
Old Programming:
I was told by my mother that I would never make enough
money to support my self because I was to lazy.
New Programming:
I make a good living, I pay all my bills on time, and I am debt
free. With my new found confidence I plan to double my salary
in the not to distant future.
Use what you wrote as affirmations. Place them where you will see
them everyday. Read them a few times during the day, particularly
when you first awake and just before going to bed. Repeat these
affirmations until they become a new belief not only in your mind
or subconscious but a belief that is reproduced in your speech, your
your mannerisms, your actions and your reactions.
This is a very effective way to reprogram your subconscious mind
and erase your negative programming and rewrite the “script” in
your mind.
