Relationship, can sometimes be, quite a bumpy ride as far as
your emotions go. Sometimes being involved with someone can
feel like being on a roller coaster ride. For this reason it is vital
that you learn how to control your emotions while dating.
I am going to share with you my point of view on this subject.
If you are a woman reading this article I hope that you will take
into consideration, what I am sharing with you in this article.
Let us take a look at this real situation: the man you are dating
looks at another woman every time you two go out on a date.
Although you say nothing to him you are upset and mad. How
should you handle this situation? The first thing you should
observe is the Look that he gives to the other woman. Does
he glances in her direction or does he stares and expresses
interest with his eyes and body language? If he appears to be
flirting or lusting after her don’t waste your time dump the
guy.
If he ask you why you don’t want to date him anymore, it is
time for you to speak up and say:Â if you need to check out
other women when you are in my company, then you are
really showing me that I am not really the person you want
to be with. I would rather give you space to find what you
are really looking for. I am not the type of woman that will
compete with another woman for your attention or your
affection. If he tries to make you feel insecure, ignore him
and stand your ground. Don’t compromise your emotional
health for no one. The truth is, if you are with a man and he is
checking another woman in your presence, this guy is not
really into you. If he truly was, he would not be taking his
eyes off you during your time together not even for a moment.
If you decide to ignore his behavior and continue dating him
you are in for a lot of heartaches, emotional pain and dramas.
In fact, you are sending him a message that you are so into him
that you are ready to accept any behavior from him, including
disrespect. When a man get that kind of message from a woman
consciously or unconsciously, you are fair game. You become
his toy, he will use you for as long as he feels like it and as soon
as he find another woman he will dump you.
This is the type of man that as soon as you have your back
turned will be dating someone else behind your back. If you
think that I am making this up, find a mature man and share
with him this information and you will see that I was not lying
to you.
As a woman you need to recognize the signs of trouble while
dating if you want to avoid personal heartaches, unnecessary
stress, abuse, dramas… etc. This is one of the main reason
that being in control of your emotions while dating is
essential.
Don’t ever settle for Mr wrong because you are scared to be
alone. Work on your self esteem, spend time in your company
and the company of close friends. Don’t let some of your
friends pressure you in dating the wrong guy so you can hang
out with them. Don’t compromise your values, and who you
are to be with a man. He will not do it to be with you.
Take a course at a community college in something of interest
to you. Expand your circle of friends and activities. As an
example , if you like to travel, attend travel seminars or
workshops. You want to meet people that share your interests.
Take your time to find the person that is right for you. To be
happy in a relationship you need not only to take your time to
connect with the right person but, you also need to learn to
control your emotions while dating. If you don’t, your
feelings will take control of your dating relationship, and it will
become much difficult, later for you to get out of a this abusive
relationship.
